A Message on Grief

Grief is a process by which you learn about your own humanity and mortality. That this place you live right now is finite is a part of the paradigm, but only a small part, for the energy is not finite and does, in fact, live forever.

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Love lives forever. The creation of energy that exists when love happens — when someone loves and is in turn loved back — is infinite and immortal. Those we love are carried with us, in our souls, forever through this love, which doesn’t cease to exist simply because someone’s physical form dies.

This love calls out to and connects us beyond this time and this place and this limited understanding of what it means to exist.

Grief is the process of understanding that endings are not all that is, and in fact, are not endings at all. They are continuations on, to the next step. And for those who are “left behind,” the end of someone’s life is simply a beginning of understanding their existence in a different context.

You don’t believe in death of the soul when the physical form is done, so don’t grieve as if you do.

The pain you experience is real and understandable in the context of the duality that this place you live exists. Something is either alive or dead, here or not. But you are aware on a greater level of energy and how it works and how it evolves. The soul evolves through the experiences of life AND death, and so it is a beautiful thing when a soul chooses it is time to learn the lessons of departure and move beyond the physical.

You will meet again, and you will gain a greater and greater understanding of oneness that allows you to feel the presence of those you love, even after they are gone, for they are never truly gone. We live together in oneness, and in so doing, are always connected in light and love.

Remind yourself of this, live this, and BE this for those you love who are going through this monumental transition to what is next.

This is a great and beautiful calling for you and one that will be filled with deep joys as well as deep sorrows. Take comfort knowing what has been said is truth and that in this process, you will learn amazing things and experience profound love, beyond what you’ve experienced in this physical form as yet.

Sadness is a part of the transmutation process. It is emotion — energy in motion. Here is an opportunity for you to understand that concept. This energy of sadness MOVES through you. It transmutes the grief you’re experiencing, the pain of impending loss, and allows you to move forward in light. So allow the sadness to happen, and allow it to move. Don’t hold onto it or wallow in it or transversely try to tamp it down. Simply allow it to move, and in moving, clear and balance your field. This will allow you the balance you need to be present for those you love at all times.

Jodie Fletcher